My journey to coaching began at a tender age. With a listening ear, friends, people and in my neighbourhood started asking me related questions. My insights on relationships were informed by an appreciation for both the male and female perspectives. At a young age, I understood the importance of cultivating harmony between the two gender. I believe intimate relationships are not complicated. We just have to put the right ingredients into the ‘relationship pot.’ I was introduced to Relationship Coaching during my degree studying Health Education. It became clear that this profession gave me a chance to do what he’s always wanted to do. Help people in a very profound way. Relationship Coaching enables me to put my God-given gifts to use by helping women see relationship issues more clearly, mend from divorce and breakups, and help singles get their relationship groove back. I pursued my Certification for Professional Relationship Coaching and received my Certification in 2023. 

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On my birthday crossover night, while praying for the gift of another year, God apprehended me and spoke to me. I knew it was Him immediately. He said in Isaiah 43:1 “I have redeemed thee; I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine.”

 

Those amazing words from God opened my eyes to his awesome greatness and love for me gripped my heart in a way I can’t express.

 

I had grown up knowing I was meant to study my bible and go deeper in building my spiritual life but have been reluctant about it, but that night I surrendered my life to Him. All my life I was trying to do good and earn his love by building marriage & making money, but all He wanted was me. The reality of that is still being revealed to me to this day. He wanted ME and me just the way I was a sinner, young, used, defiled, and ugly. I didn’t deserve Him; I didn’t deserve His mercy, I didn’t deserve His mercy, yet He extended to me not only mercy and forgiveness but a job in His KINGDOM, a seat with him, partnership, and a place at his table. He was giving me His name, choosing me as His child!

 

He didn’t expect me to come to Him all clean and pretty; He wanted me just the way I was (THIS IS MIND BLOWING). He didn’t say first go to confession and then I’ll take you. No! He wanted me without delay just as I was, dirt and all; sin and all.

 

That night He stood at the door of my heart and knocked, and I opened it. He made it so clear to me, your childish way or MINE. I realized in that instant what I was trying to accomplish on my own was possible only with Him. And what a partnership He was offering me. That night the Creator of Heaven & Earth, the omnipotent, all-powerful God was standing at the door of my heart waiting for my response. God considered me worthy of His time and attention. My response was a resounding YES. I have been actively following Him ever since. He has been speaking to me ever since then and told me I have sent you to Women because they speak the same language as you are, and you can feel what they feel. Ezekiel 3:4-5.

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So, I started Women Secured (formerly known as Talkwithnik Podcast), God has placed it on my heart to pivot and run with a new title and a fresh start to embody the kingdom purposes as that is the best way for me to serve women; not to focus on things of the flesh but to mentor and guide women to realize we can grow a fierce and confident faith in Christ! By addressing their intimate heart matters through coaching, podcasting, writing, and social media.while doing that, I studied for and achieved my Relationship Coaching Certification from IAP College, 167 Midland Place S.E. Calgary, Alberta T2X 1N1 Canada. Published books are on Selar and Amazon Kindle.  I really appreciate you being here. As always, “I’m here to serve.”

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That night I was forever changed because I said yes. God chose to invest in me because He knew I was worth it. I matter to Him, and though it may take a lifetime to do it, He is molding me into His image. He is calling you too. He is standing at the door of your heart right now. Don’t wait another minute Woman. Jesus loves you so much He died for you. Don’t wait until you hear his voice. You are hearing it now. Say YES and then follow him. Contact me, and I will set you up with the Bible and Women Securing tribe @ +2348163523409 (WHATSAPP)

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As a christian single woman, coaching was the answer to my prayers, i learned how to think of myself as a high value woman, i taught myself how to have a godly relationship with the guidance of the holy spirit.